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A Purposeful Exile

It has been 26 days since I courageously accepted the challenge to come to Singapore and work for a few months, alone and without my family. It is a big move considering that I haven’t lived singly for the longest time and so the anxiety and fear of having to do everything and navigating through life by myself are overwhelming. But surprisingly, despite some first day mishaps, I found myself settling quite well and easy. I guess it is because this ‘exile’, as I call it, is with a bigger purpose, more than just for career advancement.

I am going to write about this wonderful journey as it happens and it is a great opportunity to go back to blogging once again.
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Johann N. said…
It is really difficult to be away from your family especially your kids. It happened to me in 2005 when I moved to the US, the loneliness was almost unbearable but I always think that this change is for the future of my sons and I have to be strong for them. Just like you said there is a bigger plan for you and you will just laugh at this in the future when you reap the rewards for your sacrifices. Hang in there Rio and good luck.
February 8, 2018 at 9:29 PM
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