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The Joy of Arriving at Home

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Working 5 days a week and spending Saturdays in school is eating much of my time with my two beautiful daughters. It's a sacrifice I hope they will understand someday, but it's a challenge for me not to make it obvious and felt.

Arriving at home after a busy day is always something I look forward to. This is because my cute kids always seem to be excited to see me. A shout of "si Daddy, si daddy" from the balcony by my youngest as I park my car, and a simple "daddy, daddy!" by my eldest when I walk into the house, with a matching kiss, really feels great. These are the moments that you hope to last even as they grow older.

My honk is heard, a quick head turn
And Sam races to the balcony...
Monty stops for a while
but will continue what she's doing.

Lying down at the balcony
Sam makes a peep by lifting the leather curtain
She shouts "si daddy, si daddy"
And wait for my wave of acknowledgment.

Lips ready to kiss, Monty waits for me
As I walk into the house, She gives me the sweetest kiss...
Indeed, the love we share is easy to see
I know someday I'll tell them this story.
These moments make me think that I can be a great man...
I will try to live a full life, so that I can be
Even just half the best daddy, they both think I am!

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